Not everyone out there is understanding of people in general or their feelings and the situations in their life that affect them negatively and positively.

To find someone that is willing to even try to understand someone else on such a level as to be in a relationship with them is rare and highly attractive.

If you are not willing to try to understand another person in this world, then being in a relationship is not for you. Possibly even having friendships is not for you! Be kind and at least try to understand the people you care about and they will do the same for you!