Navigating Valentine’s Day

Ahhh, Valentine's Day! That magical day where the pressure is on men to get it right and women get a free pass.

Well, to that I say, "Boo! Hiss!" The Big Bang Theory's, Sheldon Cooper had it right when he said this:

But seriously, unless you are amazingly unromantic and neglect your other half all of the time, you shouldn't have to pull out all the stops for one little day.

Here is some much needed information you'll need to alleviate your pressure.

1. Roses are great, but there are other varieties you can buy. I am allergic to roses and have discovered that carnations last much longer and are just as lovely. Many other flowers are appropriate too. Ask what her favorites are.

2. You don't have to go with a serious card. Humor is sexy.

3. According to Money magazine, the top 2 items women do not want are lingerie and stuffed animals. There are some exceptions, but you will know this.

4. What women really want is this: attention and for you to show her she's still hot. When it comes to giving a list, they want chocolate, kissing, flowers and jewelry.

5. What do men want? Kisses, hugs and more, chocolates, wine and food.  No brainer here.

If you know your other half well, you know what the perfect date night would be. Be yourself and don't go overboard.